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I didn’t know shame and fear have become a traditional thing that people would just simply dismiss and cast it aside. However, shame and fear are extremely important to me, especially in today’s society.

Below was what the Buddha said…

Dhammapada Verses 244 and 245

Verse 244: Life is easy for one who is shameless and bold as a crow, who slanders others and is pretentious, aggressive and corrupt.

Verse 245: Life is hard for one with a sense of shame, who always seeks purity, who is free from attachment, who is modest and who sees clearly what is proper livelihood.

In the Lokapala Sutta (AN 2.9), it is called The Bright Protectors/Guardians of the World

“Bhikkhus, these two bright principles protect the world. What are the two? Shame and fear of wrongdoing. If, bhikkhus, these two bright principles did not protect the world, there would not be discerned respect for mother or maternal aunt or maternal uncle’s wife or a teacher’s wife or the wives of other honored persons, and the world would have fallen into promiscuity, as with goats, sheep, chickens, pigs, dogs, and jackals. But as these two bright principles protect the world, there is discerned respect for mother… and the wives of other honored persons.”

With the thoughts of Shakyamuni Buddha, Amitabha, Avalokiteshvara and Mahasthamaprata follow by the the four types of right effort. There is no chance for unwholesome thoughts to linger… This is my best antidote to prevent myself from making mistake which could lead to shame… Thus, I would completely agree with the Buddha’s teachings – the Guardians of the world.

Reflections on Kindness

Every day offers us the potential for creating at least one act of kindness. We don’t want to miss the opportunity.

When others unexpectedly hurt us with their words, return kindness, not pain.

To reach others, use soft but honest words, and have a kind and sincere expression on your face.

People do not have to be kind to us. When we are, be appreciative. When it seems there is nothing we can do, we can be kind.

One who receives kindness should always remember it but one who performs kindness would be wise to forget it.

Being kind is not necessarily being gentle. Sometimes, true kindness is being stern.

The true friend is one who understands, forgives, and forgets our thoughtless words and acts. Offering us the kindness of another chance.

Open the doors to your heart. Open them wider. Wider still.
Now, leaving ego behind, step through to an expanse of loving-kindness as pervasive as all time, as broad as the universe.

Venerable Wuling

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After 10 years…

I didn’t get to see and cremate Blackie. He was hit by a car and his body was kept by someone who knows I have been feeding and taking care of him for many years and yet refused to let me arrange a proper cremation for him but choose to dump him into the rubbish truck the next morning and then released the news and let others inform me. By the time I knew it, it was too late. I didn’t get to see him, neither did I get a chance to cremate him. That was the woman’s intention… She did it and from the look on her face. She was all contented.

When we first saw Blackie many years back, he was not sterilised so we had him fixed. He got into fights and had a deep cut on his head. We sent him to the vet and had him stitched up and released him.

It’s a promise to every cat that I am taking care of that I will take care of them till they are old and bring them home when they are ill. Blackie was the one I was always waiting to bring home. As he was still healthy, he would probably want his space.

I was very angry with that woman who hated me right to the core… That day I kept telling myself to focus on dedicating merits to Blackie and nothing else. Whatever virtuous actions I did, I dedicated to him and that’s the final thing I can do for him.

I will keep doing what I am doing today. In hope to make a connection with them again and with a sincere wish to influence them with the Dharma.

Believe and have confidence in Buddha. Believe and have confidence in Quanyin and believe and have confidence in myself!

It is another unpleasant day. Not a matter of life and death. It’s just another foolish mistake often made by me without the fear of feeling pain. That’s the reason to live life to the fullest. Giving whole heartedly without the fear of feeling pain.

The raising and ceasing of pain… It’s just a process. Nothing to be alarmed. Despite the unpleasant day, breathing meditation was good. Walking and chanting meditation was good as well. Meditation is the best way to lessen our sufferings. By letting go all defilements and single pointed focus on an object. The longer you hold, the better you are. At least I wasn’t completely affected by a bad day.

This is how Shine looks like after taking milk.
And Sayang as well.

These cats make me smile everyday. Rescues are the best!

Maybe one day, the foolish mistake that I have often made would no longer be called a foolish mistake…